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God, it’s me. Sorry I made it about music. Again.

Home » Blog » God, it’s me. Sorry I made it about music. Again.
June 20, 2020 by Kelly Irvin

Faith band performsMuch joy rang out in Whoville recently when churches were able to open their doors again for services in sanctuaries. Music rang out again. Hallelujah! Like many churches, prior to the pandemic, mine had adapted a two-pronged approach to style of worship—contemporary and traditional—to accommodate the different tastes of our congregation. Strong feelings abounded on this topic, particularly when it came to the music, and much discussion occurred before the two very different services were developed. Returning to church with the limitations necessary to ensure the safety of church members has revealed this unflattering truth: some of us (me) are still making it all about the music when we all know full well it’s not about us. It’s about Him.

In order to have time to properly clean the sanctuary between services, the task force in charge of reopening the building (the church was never closed), opted to have two “blended” services instead of one traditional and two contemporary. This means both services incorporate contemporary and traditional style elements. The faith band leads worship at both services, but traditional hymns are sung as well as contemporary music.

Because of my compromised immune system, I’m still participating in worship through the on-line streaming service. I’m shamed to admit I grumbled more than once when the service began with two old hymns I didn’t know and couldn’t sing. I was too teary-eyed over not being in the sanctuary with my sisters and brothers in Christ to appreciate the beauty of these hymns. I wiped my tears and blew my nose and tried to take my mind off the ache in my heart by looking through the on-line bulletin to see what song would be played at the end of the service. Good. At least I recognized it.

Faith band performsI thought it was just me, being me. I’m a Methodist, born and raised. I’ve sang plenty of the old hymns. I just enjoy faith music more. That’s what’s important, right? Go ahead, shake your head. I deserve an eye-roll. Then I talked to another member of the church later in the week. Without divulging too much of what was a personal conversation, I can say this member felt excluded by a service too contemporary and too loud. The gist of the conversation was that older folks were getting the short end of the stick in this blended version of worship.

Stain glass windowI thought the opposite. The blended service was too traditional. Too sedate. Too, yes, I’ll admit it, too boring.

Is it human nature to be so self-important we can’t see how we’ve made worship all about us?

Lord, I’m so sorry. Please forgive me.

It can’t be a coincidence that our worship team chose to lead us in an old faith song recently that speaks to this sinful approach to worship. It’s called “The Heart of Worship.” The writer is apologizing to God for making worship about himself. A song is not what He requires. It’s all about God. Here’s the link to a song that speaks to this issue. Enjoy! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kZ29ueTkSWM. (If an ad pops up first, please delete it. I haven’t found a way to keep this from happening on YouTube. I apologize in advance.)

Maybe worship style hasn’t been a challenge for others. Maybe I’m only hoping I’m not the only one who’s been remiss in my approach to worship during the pandemic. If that’s the case, Amen! Otherwise, I hope this song will help us think about what we’re doing so we can straighten up and fly right. I’m looking forward to Sunday service and raising my voice to a faithful, righteous, gracious, merciful God. He knows what I need and gives it to me whether I like it or not. He forgives me even when I don’t deserve it.

How are you dealing with the pandemic’s effect on your worship services? Any tips are appreciated. Leave your comments below!

 

Category: BlogTag: church service, church traditions, faith, faith bands, faith music, hymns, modern church services, music, on-line services, pandemic, The Heart of Worship, traditional church services, traditional hymns, worship
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  1. linda Romesburg

    June 22, 2020 at 5:13 am

    I could’ve written this blog for you. Lol. We are still steaming both of our services at Life UMC here in WV. We are going to try a “ sit in your car in the parking lot and watch the service while it’s aired over an FM station “ …. next Sunday.
    I miss the music and the people also, but I miss the feeling that God is in the room with me while inside the building. I too cry during the music……..

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  2. Elaine Shorb

    June 22, 2020 at 5:23 am

    Here, in South Central Pennsylvania, my Church just reopened the building for Worship Service yesterday. It was the first time since March 12th that we were able to Worship in person together.
    I, too, am an United Methodist. I know exactly how you feel about singing. I love the old hymns. But, more and more, the more contemporary songs are being sung in my church. We are told that this is the way to get the younger generation to come to church. But, as we sing, I will reflect on the words of a song. I am glad that even words of a song can lead people to Christ. So, like it or not, I will sing the contemporary songs. (I am the assistant organist at my church. When the regular organist takes a Sunday off and I play, I will tell you that there are old hymns sung on this Sunday. )
    Have a wonderful day, Kelly!

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  3. Elizabeth Gaasenbeek

    June 22, 2020 at 6:13 am

    I’m listening to Letters to the Church by Francis Chan and I can’t say enough about how amazing this book is on how the church is or needs to be according to scripture. This blog post of yours ties in with the message of this book. I highly recommend reading or listening to it. You are so right about church not being about us with our wants and complaints. Church isn’t the order or content of the service as much as time with the body to worship God in more than music and style or traditions. Time reading scripture and praying. Time in communion. Time in fellowship. Taking pains to know each other and share life, burdens, needs and praise for God’s answers to prayer and provision. God is calling us out of religiosity into relationship with Him and one another through Jesus our Saviour. Praying for you in your struggles and thanking God for you and your heart that listens to the still small voice, a heart that yearns for Him. Blessings to you! Much love!

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  4. Debi

    June 22, 2020 at 9:07 am

    I know how you feel Kelly. I’m also still at home & it pains me to not be leading worship. So much so, that I have let it totally ruin my worship some Sundays. Instead of worshiping, I was nitpicking at every little thing. Unfortunately, you and I can’t change our situation, but you are right, we can change our heart attitude.

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    • Kelly Irvin

      June 23, 2020 at 3:46 pm

      It seems attitude is the only thing we can control. I always looked forward to going to the church building on Sunday morning and being with my “peeps.” It helped me get through a week like this one when I have 4 days with doctors’ appointments. Somehow we have to make this work. We have to know God’s plan is perfect. He is good. We have to hang on to that through the tears and the crankiness. It’s a season. Just a season.

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  5. Carmelita Burris

    June 22, 2020 at 9:46 am

    These are tough times in many ways. Some we understand some we don’t but if we didn’t have God by our side I’m sure it would be tougher. Peace be with you!

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    • Kelly Irvin

      June 23, 2020 at 3:42 pm

      So true.!

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  6. Mike T.

    June 22, 2020 at 1:24 pm

    Hey Kelly, thank you!

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