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Lost lamb reminder of Christmas past & future

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November 11, 2017 by Kelly Irvin

For such a small, insubstantial piece of plastic, the little lamb sure packed an emotional wallop just a few days into this year’s Christmas season. Tim was digging around under the couch trying to find one of our cats’ toys, when he came up with a plastic lamb instead.

The lamb made me teary-eyed. Fortunately, Tim didn’t notice. This lamb belongs to a nativity scene I bought for our two grandchildren last year. We set it out on the coffee table while the “grownup” nativi

Nativity scene lamb
Our last lamb has been hidden under the couch for the last year.

ty scene with its breakable pieces sat in its usual spot on the fireplace mantel. The little lost lamb had been under the couch for almost a year. The rest of the scene went with my daughter and her family when they moved back to Virginia in February.

Introducing my grandchildren to baby Jesus and the true meaning of Christmas was one of the great joys of the Christmas season 2016. Brooklyn and Carson learned the names of Mary, Joseph, and baby Jesus. They played with the lamb, the donkey, and the cow. They gave them rides in their toy cars and listened to the story of baby Jesus’s birth over and over again. We sang happy birthday to Jesus.

They were introduced to the most important story they’ll ever hear in a way that was appropriate for their age and ability to understand. The message will be repeated many times, to be sure, but starting early plants the seeds. Christmas isn’t about Santa and reindeer.

So why cry over such good memories? Because this year my daughter and her family will celebrate Christmas in their new home far away on the East Coast. The nativity scene will be on their coffee table, not ours. The sugar cookies will be baked in their oven, not ours, and they won’t be here for the Christmas Eve candlelight service.  After all this time, I admit I still find it hard to be an empty nester any time of the year, but especially during the holiday season.

It’s been a wonderful year of opportunity and growth for Erin and her husband Shawn. I’m proud of the progress they’ve made with his good job and buying their first home. This is the way life is supposed to go and I thank God for it. I thank God for the good fortunate of having both our son and daughter together with their loved ones all in one place last Christmas. We’re so blessed to have those times and those sweet memories now.

Brooklyn plays with nativity scene.
Brooklyn plays with nativity scene last Christmas.

I remind myself of these truths as I look at this cute little lamb. He’s lost and like any good shepherd, it’s time for me to send him back to his flock. It’s ironic, isn’t it, that the lamb was lost? Jesus has taken care of my little lambs this entire year, giving them a new home, new friends, and many new experiences. He takes care of his flock.

Soon Erin will unpack the nativity scene and the grandkids will ooh and ahh. They’ll remember playing with it last year at Grandma’s house. They’ll think of Grandma and Grandpa too. Erin will read them the story of Jesus’s birth. The truth and the tradition will live on. And they’ll start their own family traditions, just as Tim and I did when Erin and Nicholas were small. The cookies and milk for Santa on Christmas Eve, the candlelight service, the crazy music on Christmas morning, the chocolate chip pancakes, the movies in our PJs after the presents were opened. Some of these traditions will live on, mixed with new ones.

In the meantime, Tim and I will be here in San Antonio making new memories with Nicholas, his wife, and the family we have here.

Lamb in envelope
Nativity scene lamb joins Christmas books in envelope to be sent to grandkids in Virginia.

That’s the way family works. I’ll find it hard to be apart from my daughter’s family this Christmas, but I know they’re exactly where they’re supposed to be. So I’m slipping lost baby lamb into an envelope, along with some new Christmas books, and mailing them to Virginia. I can just imagine how their eyes will light up when they see the lamb and the books. Erin will remind them of the time they spent with Grandma and Grandpa last Christmas. But they’ll be busy making new memories. Which is just as it should be.

For the empty nesters out there, how have you adjusted to the holidays with your grownup children off making their own traditions and memories? What new traditions have you instituted?

 

 

Category: BlogTag: Christmas, Christmas story, empty nester, family, Jesus, Joseph, Mary, meaning of Christmas, nativity scene, traditions
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  1. Andrea Woodard

    November 13, 2017 at 2:13 pm

    I understand and feel for you. We became empty nesters, back in 1998. My daughter got married the beginning of July and my son went into the Navy, the end of July. My daughter is since divorced, my son is deployed from Oct to May and hopefully when he gets back from his deployment with the Navy, he will retire after 20 years in the service.

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    • Kelly Irvin

      November 13, 2017 at 6:43 pm

      We work hard to teach them to be independent adults who think for themselves, but then when they do, it’s hard for us! Thanks for sharing, Andrea!

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  2. Lucille Griffin Watkins

    November 13, 2017 at 2:42 pm

    I truly understand living 5 hours away from our granddaughters and daughter and son in law. As our grands were small they cam up on Christmas Eve for Christmas with us but as the got a little older and then two of them was more difficult to come here for Christmas. Our oldest granddaughter will be 19 on Nov 16th this Thursday,the day after my birthday and our youngest will be 16 on Jan. 5th. It was hard getting used to a different tradition on all Holidays, but we decided since they could not be here for Christmas we would find a way to be there for Christmas Eve and Christmas day which we have done every year since that tradition changed. It is always sad for us at this time of the year since we lost our son at age 13 in 1980 (which somes days seems like yesterday) he was 4 years older than our daughter. It hurts but that is a part of life they have to have their lives too we know. Just so thankful that God gives a new day to wake up too. Will be thinking of you this Christmas Eve and Christmas Day.

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    • Kelly Irvin

      November 13, 2017 at 6:42 pm

      Such bittersweet memories. Lucille. Thank you for sharing. I can’t imagine what you must have suffered in the loss of your son. You’re right, though, we’re to be thankful for every day. I’ll be thinking of you too!

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  3. Brenda Murphree

    November 13, 2017 at 4:25 pm

    I am fortunate to have both our daughters close each and every day. Praying that you will still have a great Thanksgiving & Christmas.

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    • Kelly Irvin

      November 13, 2017 at 6:40 pm

      Thanks, Brenda! Prayers are appreciated!

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  4. Sarah Taylor

    November 14, 2017 at 10:56 pm

    I so can relate to your empty nest My Husband passed 9 years ago and it is hard for all the family to be together for the holidays as I read this I found myself thinking about days gone by and how my kids and grandchildren and great grandchildren don’t always get to be together for the holidays like we once did But I Thank the Good Lord above for letting me see another holiday and For The Baby Jesus That was born and That is the reason for the Season! Merry Christmas Kelly and Happy Holidays !

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    • Kelly Irvin

      November 15, 2017 at 8:02 am

      So true, Sarah. The same to you! I hope you have a wonderful Christmas season!

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